Because I'm basically a genius, I convinced my parents to buy me a plane ticket for a combined Christmas and birthday present. This way I could break up the time while Adam was in France. They obliged, and I was schedule to fly to Utah January 25 (take note, this trip was planned back in September).
I had planned many adventures for myself while I was in Utah, most specifically spending time with family and friends. Well, my plans changed while I was there.
Sunday, I went to see my grandma Dodie at her assisted living. She wasn't too alert, but was still able to say, "I love you honey". Which is what she was saying to most people at this point. Nonetheless, she still talked to me.
Monday, my dad called to report grandma was not doing very well. After 12 pm that day, grandma was no longer responsive. The family gathered in grandma's tiny room to see her and say their goodbyes. After many hours of keeping vigil, grandma did not seem to be going anywhere anytime soon. Everyone headed home for the evening.
Tuesday I headed back to be with grandma again. We continued to keep vigil. Still, no changes. Around 5 pm, grandma's breathing changed. Within 15 minutes, she had very peacefully taken her last breath. We cried and laughed! She had finally "graduated" and was with grandpa Keith and all her family again.
I share this because, time and again, I am amazed at God's tender mercies in my life. Although my original plans for returning to Utah weren't exactly met, I was able to be present for the final days of my grandma's life (and utilize my hospice knowledge and training). I honestly didn't expect to be at her funeral or even see her before she passed. I feel truly blessed to have the Lord's hand in my life, continually guiding and directing my path.
I was still fortunate enough to squeeze in a few friend hang outs in between all the madness. Also, I got more than my share of family time! And I was lucky enough to see all of my cousins. That hasn't happened in more years than I can count.
And now a quick photo synopsis of my time in Utah.
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| Triple decker braid. Love these crazy gals! |
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| QT with my mom |
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| Niece time |
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| Old school girls hang out |
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| Family time |
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| Love these kids! |
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| Cousin reunion |
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| The Schwartz family thanks to grandma and grandpa |
I figured your grandma was the reason we didn't see each other, but it's totally ok! I completely understand. I'm glad you got to see her one last time. You're awesome. I miss you.
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This made me tear up. Miss you love you!
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